Showing posts with label Faith. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Faith. Show all posts

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Is Faih a Weakness???


-Bob Dillon is a member of Riverside Church, and the assistant principle of Nipher Middle School in nearby Kirkwood, Mo. Bob recently taught a class in media at UMSL, and the Riverside Blog asked him to help us deal with media and the phenomenon of 24 hour news.

Is Faith a Weakness?

The essayists, authors, and commentators of our secular society have
finally broken me down. They have convinced me that yes, faith is a
weakness. They have swayed me to think that faith creates a skewed
perception of reality and clouds the decision-making ability of those
that lean on it for support. They have persuaded me that those of faith
aren’t tolerant and open people that embrace all and accept that
society is growing in the right direction.

They have me believing that faithful people lack the understanding of
our complex, global society in which values are flexible and decisions
are made systematically without the crutch of a decision-making
structure that accounts for God’s will. Finally, they have established
for me that faith doesn’t allow us to think, be intellectual, or
experience life to the fullest as it limits our time, creates
commitments, and steers conversation.

How can we grow strong with these chains of faith bound to our side? In
this world that requires us to absorb new ideas and information, having
a lens of faith, through which all filters, is our secular worlds
version of a death sentence to enlightenment. One of the many affects of
this pressure is to muteall discussion of faith in casual conversation.

Has anyone else recognized how hard it is to talk about faith,
church-life, or God among casual friends, acquaintances, or those at
work? I’m not even talking about evangelizing, but simple mentions of
what fulfills your life. I wonder if I am afraid because I worry I will be
seen as weak, out of the mainstream, or simply that the grand light of
my opinions will seem dim? :)

This pressure shouldn’t pigeonhole conversations about faith, values,
and religion because isn’t this society at its fullest when no ideas
are muted in the marketplace of ideas? As people of faith, it remains
important that we examine these concepts about faith as weakness that
are presented to us almost daily while still focusing on the reasons
that we grow through faith.

My encouragement - after teaching near this subject for a year, is in a few areas.
First, we must walk miles in others’ shoes.
This means most importantly that we understand the core concerns of
those resisting a society with a faithful lifestyle in the forefront. By
pushing aside the ideas of the secular society without careful
examination, how can we possibly ask the same from the other side when
our moments to persuade occur.

Second, people of faith radiate a beauty of kindness. We need to
purposefully use this glow throughout our daily lives in our actions.
This means choosing to do the little things until the little things are
so habitual that they flow naturally everyday. I believe that there is a
true sense throughout all of society that these types of actions are the
core strength of those with faith.

It is hard for me to not see faith as a weakness. But, when I clear my head,
through actions and prayer, I know that I am actually weak without
faith.

Monday, April 27, 2009

Mature Dependence


Cheesy image? Yes, maybe. (I was looking for something to go with what I wanted to get at below.) You deserve better. I realize this...Anyway, I wanted to make a quick post today and would ask for your interaction on it below (if you'd like).

Yesterday we mentioned that everyone has a set of beliefs that helps them make sense of the world around them. This set of beliefs, commonly called a worldview, helps individuals answer some of the "big questions" in life (i.e., Is there a God?, Why do people suffer?, What happens to us when we die?, Will the Cardinals win the Series this year?). All of these are very important and the answers to them help us to "live" in the world around us (okay, maybe not the last one, but even that is highly debatable).

So, we mentioned yesterday that Jesus himself had a worldview, a way of making sense of reality. Though I doubt it was as corny as the "blue-green eyeball", his worldview showed us something about who he thought God was (or was like). I had never really thought about this before. It challenges me, because as someone who claims to follow Jesus, I don't know if my "way of seeing things" squares all that well with Jesus'; not the least of which is my steely stubbornness to see God as a Father. I am sure that it is my arrogance that gets in the way: I'd rather be self-sufficient than see myself as a "beggar." No, "being in need" wouldn't be half as bad as having to admit and deal with the fact that I am in need. 

For those who read this blog that claim to follow Jesus, how do we mature in our dependence? 

For those who read this blog and don't follow Jesus, is this a fundamental problem with Christianity--that it promotes neediness and illustrates that "religion is a crutch"? 

I'd love your thoughts...
-Ryan

Thursday, April 23, 2009

What does he think of his faith now?

I was talking to my mom last week, and she told me that the woman who works for her - after finding out that I was sick - asked her, "Well, what does he think of his faith now?" (PS - if you weren't in church or don't go to church you can email me through our church website and I can explain my sickness).

This Space is in honor of her tact: __________________ .

To hear my mom tell the story it sounds like she sat the woman down and told her about Jesus. I mean, it kind of sounded like a come-to-Jesus meeting in lots of ways. So awkward! I mean, I know people that like to say provocative things and then sort of back off. But, when it is your employer (its my mom's company too... she's not just the boss), and she says, "No, you asked so I'm gonna tell you!" you have to sit there.

Mom said it was the most she had talked about Jesus in years. Seems like a good thing.

What I told Mom was that she could tell __________ that I am happy that my worldview provides good answers to the difficult questions we are faced with (both before and now). Now, that can sound silly in some ways, or like I'm dodging, but I mean it. Christianity does not offer pat or trite answers. But, it offers robust, thick answers to the questions we have. Sometimes the Bible will re-orient us to another question, that the Bible implies is a better question. Sometimes the answers suck. Such as when some of our "suffering" is caused by us, or by dead relatives we can't yell at. Other times it is frustrating because we are forced to realize that the dominant culture has us thinking we can actually eliminate many kinds of suffering - some through mere distraction, and other kids (like sickness) through medicine.

I am still happy that the Bible answers my questions. Through the Bible I expect people to have darkness in them. So, I am less surprised by suicide, divorce, squabbles over money. Through the Bible I do not expect to not suffer because of my faith. Through the Bible I believe there is hope of redemption (which is really the hardest one to believe isn't it?). I mean, ultimately we are not expecting answers to everything, I think we just struggle to have actual hope. It would be easy for me to write something trite about the resurrection. I do believe that it indicates the power behind true hope.

What do you think?

-Matt